it takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone-but it takes a lifetime to forget someone….
we dono what we’ve got until we lose it..n we dono what we’ve been missing until it arrives…doakan yang terbaik untuk semua…semoga kita mendapat hidayah & keredhaan-NYA untuk meneruskan kehidupan ini hingga ke hujung nyawa…amin

Taurus (Apr 20 – May 20)[?]
The Bottom Line
Don’t go solo right now if at all possible. Get out into the world and get social.

In Detail
Being alone may bring you a lot of comfort right now, but being among other people will feed your soul in an extremely rewarding way. So don’t go solo right now if at all possible. Meet up with people, any people! Sometimes, you need to pop out of your shell whether you want to or not. After one or two hours out in the external world, you will be infused with a whole new kind of energy and positive feelings about others. You’ll get the social bug eventually.

Dear Thomas,

What if a person thinks he has more than one soul mate and is having difficulty picking the one whom he wants to spend his life with-and each soul mate has different attributes about them that he loves. How to decide? — Tom

Dear Tom,

At a certain point in life, many of us find ourselves in the difficult situation of loving two people and feeling the need to choose one over the other. The situation can be torture, and anyone can feel torn apart. I don’t mean to take anything away from your feelings, but your language hints at a solution. You sound as though you’re standing back and judging these people. I suspect that if you let yourself get closer to each of them, the choice would be made for you.

As a therapist, I listen closely to the words people use. When you use the word “picking,” my ears prick up. The way I imagine a deep soul connection, love picks you and your partner. The “soul” part of soul mate is the depth of the connection. It goes beyond reason and control and seems to be ordained by fate. Maybe you need to take more time to be involved with these people and let a decision emerge. If you really are soul mates, you should be able to talk with enough honesty and depth to know what to do. If you yourself acted like a soul mate, you would describe the situation as two people together making a decision, not one sizing up the other.

You have to ease up on your desire to know everything and to be in control-so you’ll see the signs of real love. When you make the shift from being fully in charge to letting life happen, you’ll discover how to be-and have-a soul mate. 

Thomas Moore is an author, psychotherapist, lecturer, and Beliefnet.com relationships columnist who has published many books and articles in the areas of archetypal and Jungian psychology, religion, mythology, relationships, and the arts. Moore lived as a monk in a Catholic religious order for thirteen years. A former professor of psychology, he has a Ph.D. in religious studies, an M.A. in theology, and an M.A. in musicology. He lives in New England with his wife, the artist Joan Hanley, and their two children

Drain the pressure from the swelling,
The sensations overwhelming,
Give me a kiss goodnight and everything will be alright,
Tell me that I won’t feel a thing,
So give me novacaine
Oh Novacaine

Drain the pressure from the swelling,
The sensations overwhelming
Give me a kiss goodnight and everything will be alright,
Tell me, Jimmy, I won’t feel a thing,
So give me Novacaine

~greenday~

~bluefroggie~